Healing After Betrayal

Affair Recovery Therapy in Pleasanton, CA

You’re tired of feeling like everything you thought was real has changed overnight.

Healing is possible

After an affair, your relationship may feel unrecognizable. You may question your partner, your history, and even yourself. The pain is deep, and the trust that once felt solid now feels impossible to rebuild.

Affair recovery therapy provides a way forward. It helps both partners process their emotions, rebuild trust, and create a new foundation for connection. Healing is possible when both people engage in the process together.

Sound like you?

You feel overwhelmed by waves of anger, sadness, and disbelief.

You struggle with trust and don’t know how to move forward.

Your partner wants to “move on,” but you still feel stuck.

You wonder if your relationship can ever fully heal.

Here’s what we’ll do together

Rebuilding trust takes time, effort, and guidance. Therapy provides a path forward.

The Affair Recovery Process
Healing happens in four key phases:
Phase 1: Managing Discovery
Understanding the betrayal, full disclosure, and coping with emotions
Phase 2: Relationship Review
Exploring relationship history, vulnerabilities, and rebuilding trust.
Phase 3: Working Through
Learning trust-building behaviors, improving communication, and processing emotions.
Phase 4: Consolidation
Strengthening connection, reinforcing commitment, and ensuring long-term growth.

With time and intentional effort, couples can begin to rebuild trust. Therapy helps guide you through open communication, emotional reconnection, and practical steps toward healing. Whether your goal is to repair and strengthen your relationship or find clarity on the next steps, the process is designed to support both partners.

At the end of the day, I want you to know:

Healing after an affair is possible. It takes time, intention, and support — but trust can be rebuilt, and relationships can become stronger that before.

What we’ll work on

Therapy Goals & Outcomes

  • Rebuilding trust and emotional security

  • Understanding why the affair happened

  • Strengthening communication and connection

  • Creating a path toward healing

Change is possible.

Change is possible.

Questions?

FAQs

  • The length of therapy depends on the depth of the betrayal, the willingness of both partners, and the healing process. Some couples make progress in a few months, while others need longer to rebuild trust and connection.

  • Yes, trust can be rebuilt with time, commitment, and open communication. Therapy provides a space to process emotions, address relationship patterns, and restore emotional safety.

  • It’s normal to feel uncertain. Therapy helps both partners explore their emotions, understand what led to the affair, and gain clarity on the next steps.